Helping families find rest through understanding, compassion, and over three decades of experience supporting babies and parents.
Meet Ms. Tory
I'm Tory—
Founder of Whispering Lullabies and Creator of the Sacred Sleep Method™.
For more than 30 years, I've had the privilege of supporting babies and families through pregnancy, postpartum, and the early newborn months. Along the way, I noticed something many traditional approaches to infant sleep often overlooked: every baby has a unique story behind their sleep.
That realization became the foundation of the Sacred Sleep Method™—a regulation-first philosophy that helps parents understand the why behind their baby's sleep before creating a personalized path toward lasting rest. Rather than relying on one-size-fits-all solutions, I believe healthy sleep begins with understanding a baby's developing nervous system, temperament, developmental stage, and the unique dynamics of each family.
My Philosophy
I believe babies aren't problems to be fixed—they're people to be understood.
I believe parents deserve education, not judgment. I believe connection and healthy sleep can grow together. And I believe lasting confidence comes when families understand the "why" behind their baby's sleep. Every family deserves guidance that feels supportive, compassionate, and personalized to their journey.
My Approach
My work blends more than three decades of hands-on newborn care with infant sleep education, parent coaching, and a deep respect for early childhood development.
Whether I'm providing executive overnight newborn care, guiding parents through the Sacred Sleep Method™, or educating professionals, my approach is always:
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Regulation before routine
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Personalized, never generic
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Grounded in compassion and responsive care
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Focused on educating and empowering parents
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Designed to build confidence that lasts long after our work together
Experience You Can Feel
Over the years, I've had the honor of supporting hundreds of families, each with their own story, challenges, and hopes for their growing family. Families often tell me that my presence brings a sense of calm during overwhelming moments. More than improving sleep, my goal is to help parents feel supported, understood, and confident as they learn to understand their baby.
Beyond My Work
Being invited into a family's home during such an intimate season is a privilege I never take lightly. Every family teaches me something new, and every baby reminds me that there is no single path to healthy sleep.That belief continues to inspire my work, my writing, my teaching, and the ongoing evolution of the Sacred Sleep Method™.
A Gentle Invitation
Whether you're preparing to welcome your baby, navigating sleepless nights, or simply searching for a compassionate approach that honors both you and your child, I'd be honored to walk alongside your family. Let's begin with a conversation and discover what support feels right for you.